I am not the
first to be intrigued by the concept of time. But it was the first time in a
very long while that I have completely lost the sense of it. And yes, I do wear a watch.
Recently I
read about the experience of flow, when people are so absorbed by what they are
doing, and usually it’s something they feel passionate about, that they forget about
time. Time shrinks for them, almost like while sleeping. These people describe
life as very enjoyable, no matter what are their circumstances. They may be
pilots or check out chicks. According to them, experiencing flow equals happy
life.
# Rule 1: Losing the sense of time makes life enjoyable
For me time
is a very important reference. I simply like to know how long it takes my hair
to dry, what time it is during the day, or when I went to sleep. Yet this
Friday all this became irrelevant. I was caught by surprise and I didn’t plan
for it.
# Rule 2: You cannot plan for losing the sense of time
So how do you
get there? Since you cannot plan for being there, what you can do is set the
scene. The side effect of realising you were in a flow-like moment is discovering
your passion, or in other words, stuff that are meaningful to you. Take note of
them, this is your key to happy. So, this Friday, all I did is rearrange one
room* and later met my friends. May sound not much, but apparently this was my
scene for losing the sense of time.
# Rule 3: Discovering stuff that are meaningful
Throughout
that whole day I barely took notice of the time. And by the end of it I totally
forgot it existed. I had a feeling that it both stretched and shrank at the
same instance. One other side effect, which Mr Zuckerberg won’t appreciate, is
that Facebook stops existing too. Actually, the GSM stops existing, WhatsApp,
weather updates, emails, missed calls, Instagram, candy crusher. Unless of
course it’s all the above that you feel passionate about ;)
# Rule 4: No sense of time, no GSM
Read more about the experience of flow by clicking here.
*Thank you
Vanessa for your help and support :)
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